Posts tagged Rare Resiliency
The Language of Rare

For those of us caring for people with rare diseases, the words we use to describe them have the power to frame their experiences. Learn how Laura uses her language to empower her child and her role as a caregiver.

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Failure to Thrive

I can recall the sunny, white-walled classroom, on the upper west side of New York City, where I first heard the medical term, “Failure to thrive.” I was a student, working towards a Master’s Degree in Nursing, reviewing diagnostic criteria of various gastrointestinal conditions…

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Strive to Thrive, Not Just Survive

Research shows that rates of depression and anxiety are elevated among parents and caregivers of children with complex care needs. This is no mystery. I see many contributing factors: grief, chronic stress, poor sleep, caregiving burden, potential loss of work to care for the child, financial stress, social isolation, and spousal relationship problems. Which of these factors rings true for you?

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Family Planning

In our family, the love is infinite and the joy is absolute. In many ways we are like any other family; however, as we navigate this decision to have another biological child, the math is painfully different. I feel overwhelmed by uncertainty, the possibility of genetic errors, and the fragility of life.

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Gaining Control with Gratitude

Caring for a chronically ill child can be emotionally perilous. As a rare parent, Laura knows that sorrow naturally slips into moments of joy. By practicing and sharing gratitude, Laura gains control and eases those moments of fear and grief. Discover the power of gratitude and learn how the act of giving thanks transformed the way Laura experiences her husband, her children, and her day-to-day life.

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Unleashing the Power of Self-Compassion: A New Year’s Resolution to Suffer Less

As we welcome 2022, Laura Will chooses self-compassion as her New Year’s resolution. She delves into the description of the three key elements to self-compassion, revealing its many benefits. Instead of using self-critical thoughts to guide another transient resolution, Laura invites us to honor our imperfect and emotional selves, to practice self-kindness, and to channel some caring energy inwards.

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Learning to Juggle it All as a Caregiver: The Four States of the Caregiver's Identity

After her infant son was diagnosed with a rare brain malformation, Laura had an identity crisis. She was no longer just-a-mom, but also a family caregiver. Although this newly acquired title may be emotional and exhausting at times, Laura discovered in herself unforeseen skills and a remarkable strength. She delves into the description of the four states of a caregiver’s identity and creates a beautiful metaphor for this extraordinary role.

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Cultivating Flexible Hope: A look at the emotional cycles in chronic illness

While I can not trust the future health of my child, I have found things I can trust: his doctors, his one-to-one aid, my partner, the coffee maker, laughter, and my desire to care for my son. Naming the things we trust can offer some sense of control. With that trust, the fear is held at bay; and, if we pay attention, hopeful little moments start unfolding before us.

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Introducing Rare Resiliency: A column for parents of children with rare, serious, or chronic illness

Rare Resiliency is a monthly column written and/or curated by Laura Will. This column explores the concepts and skills that play a protective role against chronic and acute stress. Each article challenges and encourages the reader to continue to develop that inner steadying strength as they face illness and uncertainty, sorrow and joy.

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